The Youth Is Relational… If Your Plan Is To Influence Them, Talk To Them

I’m convinced about this. The youth is relational. if your plan is to influence them for the better in life, you must talk to them in a place where they feel comfortable speaking with you. My plan is to have a positive impact on them. I meet and talk to them in the school’s cafeteria on a daily basis.

And I love it. This semester alone, I’ve met 300 new students in the cafeteria alone and an additional 50 across the university. We have talked, shared, laughed, celebrated, cried and dined together. My level of “relatability” was pretty high before I decided to target them and talk to them on a daily basis. Now, the level of through the roof to a point of students screaming my name across campus for a return response.

This is what students like these days. People (professors, friends, family…) who understand their struggles, wishes and dreams, along with being able to bring them up when they feel down. Anxiety and depression is at an all time high in this country. Students comprise a large portion of this new age epidemic. 

Technology overuse is definitely a variable in the growth of anxiety and depression conversation. In fact, I predicted, back in 2013 that by 2024…the globe would reach a global anxiety epidemic. We are over half the way there, it seems.

The beginning of the anxiety pains have already started. No wonder why the youth wants to be relational with people, including you and me. So, this is what i think… if you want to have a positive impact on teenagers and young adults, be relational and plan time aside to speak with them.

That’s how this is done, I’m finding. Like you and I, the kids want to live a good life that is meaningful. Be a servant and speak with them! They are relational. You will influence them by taking this stance. Trust me.

Author: Dr. Luis Camillo Almeida

Communication Arts professor who has taught over a thousand students in his career. By empathizing with his students, he advises them to think with no box and motivates them to have a successful college life. Through his multifaceted approach to traditional and new medias, his students have the opportunity to become better communicators. Dr. A has helped hundreds of young adults to truly discover who they are, what makes them tick and where their passions lie, in order to achieve long term success in life. He is a very productive college professor who can be found on a variety of social media outlets, public and academic sources, and even on merchandise showcasing his photographic art. Technology complements but doesn’t define him. Colleges house him but can’t hold him.